Reverse psychology is defined as telling a person something
that is opposite of what you want him to do or believe, a persuasion technique
involving the false advocacy of a belief or behavior contrary to the belief or behavior
which is actually being advocated.
This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of
reactance, in which a person has a negative emotional response in reaction to
being persuaded, and thus chooses the option which is being advocated against.
German psychologist Adorno and Horkheimer theorized that
people respond in an opposite or reverse direction of what they are told, and
this theory has been tested and proved since the idea's debut in the late
1970s.
How reverse psychology work
Reverse psychology work best with people who are contrary or
resistant. In contrast agreeable people are likely to go along with us so we do
not need to use it.
There's people that hate being manipulated and if they sense
that people are trying to get them to do something by telling them to do the
opposite, a form of a reverse psychology may operate. So will end up doing what
people tell them to, just to spite people attempt to control them.
According to the researcher, the more attractive and
important the option that's being restricted, the greater the psychological reactance. Arbitrary
threats product high reactance because they don't make sense, which makes
people more rebellious.
In real life, reverse psychology is likely to work best when
used subtly and sparingly on people who are resistant to direct requests. It is
also much easier to use reverse psychology when someone is emotional.
How to use reverse psychology on
people
Based on the researches done, not every person will respond
to reverse psychology, for example those who's lacking of self confidence,
might actually take the defeating statements and make from them new limiting
beliefs that makes them become even worse.
Reverse psychology should be used with narcissists, stubborn
people, Type A personalities and those who have inflated egos.
How people react with reverse
psychology
There are a few prove that we have got from the researches
done.
Under some
circumstances, the answer is yes, as these two experiments demonstrate:
"...two-year-olds who are told not to play with a particular toy
suddenly find that toy more appealing. [...] Students who are told they have
their choice of five posters, but then are told one of them is not available
suddenly like that one more..." (from the excellent textbook Social Psychology
and Human Nature)
Warning labels can
have the same perverse effect:
"...warning labels on violent television programs across five age
groups (ranging from 9 to 21 years and over) were more likely to attract
persons in these groups to the violent program than information labels and no
label." (Chadee, 2011)
The idea is that when
they are that they can't have or do something, the following three things
happen:
They want it more.
They rebel by reasserting their freedom.
They feel angry at the person restricting their
freedom.
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